May 18, 2020

We often look at the external circumstances of our life with dissatisfaction and believe it is the fault of the external.

  • How many of us have lived this lie? 

  • How many times has this owned us, to the point of self-induced resignation? 

  • Where does this constant chatter of discontentment arouse from? 

  • When will I be enough? 

  • In which generation did attaching self worth to professional accomplishments becom...

June 6, 2019

Of late, I’ve been noticing a recurring theme amongst the men in my circle of family and friends. They seem to have lost their manhood to their female spouses.

I’m seeing these women lay down the law in all sorts of areas: who their men can, and cannot be friends with, and whether they can, or cannot go out with their friends. These women are ‘carrying on’; if their men have hobbies that don’t include them, and I’m also seeing...

December 13, 2018

Loyalty is described as the characteristic of being faithful to one’s obligations.

I’m sure if I question people on their loyalty quotient, most would describe themselves as being more loyal than not.  But here is the thing.  There is a difference between having our loyalty defined by opportunity, versus having our loyalty defined by values.

When our loyalty is defined by opportunity, we are mainly driven by self-inter...

October 20, 2018

A key quality one must have to achieve success, is the ability to focus.

This has become increasingly difficult as our brains are now conditioned to respond to constant stimulus. like beeping phones. Even if we were not being bombarded with perpetual notifications and advertisements, the untrained human mind is chaotic.

The most successful people throughout history have not always been the smartest or highly skilled, but they di...

July 28, 2018

A key contributing factor to success is our attention focus.

The more we place our attention on things that make us feel positive, the more energy is unleashed in us, which can be used to produce more and perform more.

People who keep succeeding are those who have found a way to consistently place their attention on the things they want, instead of what they don’t want. 

People who keep struggling are those who have formed the ha...

July 15, 2018

When we live with the awareness that everything in life is a gift, it enhances our state of gratitude, freedom and well being.  Things that we previously considered insignificant start seeming interesting.  Every moment becomes a gift, when we realize that we aren’t entitled to anything after all.  Our life, our health and our loved ones are all gifts.

We begin to realize the truth, that we have never been secure...

January 2, 2017

The age of the authentic man is well and truly here. And as far as I can tell, for a long time.

The macho man is gone, the sensitive new age guy blew away with the wind. And what’s emerged from their ashes is a man who’s seemingly struck the balance between both. Still enormously capable of being sensitive. In fact, he may be the definition of sensitive; possessing the ability to sense himself and others deeply. To feel and und...

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